Stay cool between the sheets this summer with sexy reccommendations from Bravo’s Dr. Ava Cadell

July 29, 2013

If there are two things gays love, it’s sex and Bravo. So when star of Bravo’s L.A. Shrinks Dr. Ava Cadell reached out wanting to give advice to The Homo Life‘s readers on how to stay sexy and cool down this [...]


Gay-at-Home Dad Answers: How To Be The Best Top Ever

March 3, 2013

  Hey Frank! So I’m a few months into my first real relationship with a guy, and I couldn’t be happier. Back in October, you answered “how to be a good bottom” and gave some great tips. Do you have [...]


Drowning My Pain in the Armpit of a Porn Star

February 27, 2013

  I blamed Taylor Swift for my first break-up. I still do, but I just want to state for the record that I had a problem with that cute little psycho long before her so-called serial dating streak made it [...]


I’m Gay and Disabled (Now Who Wants to Date Me?)

February 25, 2013

  I can’t tell you the first time I noticed it. I think it was preschool. Or maybe it was elementary school. I can’t remember the exact date, but I do know I felt different from other people at a [...]

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5 Amazing Things That Happen When You Stop Worrying About Guys and Dating

February 21, 2013

Everybody knows that guys can be assholes, hooking up can lose its appeal, and casually dating can be a pain. So what if you were to stop worrying about boys and dates and hookups? What would happen? Would you be [...]

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Gay-At-Home Dad Answers: I’m A Virgin

February 8, 2013

Dear Frank: I’m a college freshman, 18, and I’m a “hopeless virgin,” in two ways. First, I’ve never been with anyone beyond innocent touching. Second, I’ve never been in a relationship. I have kissed a boy and I LOVED it, [...]


I Used Grindr As A Cure for My Seasonal Depression (It Didn’t Work)

February 5, 2013

  I find joy in my on-again/off-again clinical depression. Depression causes me to lay in my bed in my room listening to my favorite sad songs thinking about myself. Obviously I would rather feel like a Katy Perry 3D movie [...]


Gay-At-Home Dad Answers: What If I Just Want To Hook Up?

December 10, 2012

Welcome to the gay sex-ed class you never had.   Frank,  Hi! :)  I’m not really looking to date since I’ll be moving to a different city in a few months. Is it wrong that I’ve decided I want to [...]

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Gay-At-Home Dad Answers: When Should I Start Having Sex With A Guy I’m Dating?

November 30, 2012

Welcome to the gay sex-ed class you never had.   Dear Frank,  I’ve been dating a boy that I really like for about 2 weeks now. We talk a lot, go out on dates regularly, and we have a lot [...]

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Gay-At-Home Dad Answers: How Do I Talk Dirty?

November 14, 2012

  Welcome to the gay sex-ed class you never had.   I’m a college sophomore at a Texas university. Even though it’s one of the most conservative universities in the US, I’ve found a guy that I can see myself [...]