Welcome to the gay sex-ed class you never had.
Hey, I’m newly gay and since you’re the HGC (Head Gay in Charge) I was hoping you could give me tips on how to be a good bottom. How should I clean my ass? Are there any crucial things I should know before I take the bottom role?
From R, 18-year-old college freshman
First of all, it’s HGIC, but I’ll give you credit for recognizing the truth. Second, what the fuck is with the ass questions? Not that I couldn’t talk about an ass all day (I could), but damn.
Okay so here’s the Buttfucking 101 that your parents will never teach you. Basically it comes down to choices. You can be a planned bottom, or a sloppy bottom. Sloppy bottoms? Don’t really give a shit. Literally. And good for them, they end up leaving their mark every time they get fucked. Planned bottoms? Are in it to win it. It starts way ahead of the fucking. It goes a little something like this:
The day of, don’t eat anything ridiculous. No Indian food, no Taco Bell, no gorging of any kind. Keep things light. A couple hours before, use a Fleet brand enema, following the instructions. Give yourself a little time. You might want to repeat it a couple times with some warm water, but don’t get too cray. If you do, you’ll risk making yourself raw and then you definitely don’t want a dick up there. If you have time afterwards, take a bath. The bath kinda seals the deal and gets your butthole nice and soft and most importantly? Ready.
Don’t over-think it. People have been getting their asses fucked for thousands of years, far before Fleet enemas were around. The most important thing is to relax. When you actually go for it, start by sitting down on it and take control before you let him flip you over and he makes you his bitch.
- Frank (@GayAtHomeDad)
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