Stay cool between the sheets this summer with sexy reccommendations from Bravo’s Dr. Ava Cadell

July 29, 2013

If there are two things gays love, it’s sex and Bravo. So when star of Bravo’s L.A. Shrinks Dr. Ava Cadell reached out wanting to give advice to The Homo Life‘s readers on how to stay sexy and cool down this [...]


An Open Letter to Tim Cook

July 17, 2013

    Dear Tim Cook, I recently wrote an article urging gay boys to read “Lean In,” Sheryl Sandberg’s advice book/feminist manifesto/memoir that encourages women to act like straight dudes in the office. Why? Because I know gay boys cut [...]


Lindsay Lohan is #Iconic

July 15, 2013

  When Lindsay Lohan entered a court ordered ninety-day lock down rehab stint at Morningside Recovery in Newport Beach, California, she fled the facility after a few hours because she “didn’t need rehab.” Prosecutors disagreed; unlike Lindsay they remembered court [...]

This gay guy, featured on MTV's "Catfish: The TV Show" catfishes straight guys and is grrrrrrrrrrross!

I Got Catfished

April 23, 2013

  I waited for this guy I met on a gay hookup app. How could I not? His profile picture showed a hot young thing sprawled out on a couch while saying “let me taste you.” At least that’s what [...]

Not only is Alex Dimitrov my fave poet of the moment, he also has a great ass.

Alex Dimitrov is a Belieber

April 22, 2013

Most people think of poets as stuffy guys who wear tweed suits and refuse to read any words written before 1922. These poets do exist, but for the most part contemporary poets (at least the queer American ones) are as [...]

Lean In

“Lean In” Is the Gay Self-Help Book I’ve Been Waiting For

April 12, 2013

  A few weeks ago in Berlin, I picked up Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead. I had read both chauvinists’ rebukes of the Facebook COO’s success and feminists’ articles decrying Sandberg for criticizing women’s [...]


Jesus Was The Original Twink

April 1, 2013

Considering I recently wrote on The Homo Life about giving an old guy a foot-job, you’re probably surprised I left the National Museum of Barcelona thinking about Baroque paintings of Jesus Christ. But this falls in line with my usual [...]

Amsterdam should be super gay, but it unfortunately isn't.

The 5 Worst Straight People I Met in Amsterdam

March 25, 2013

  Last week my fag hag Amber and I flew to Amsterdam without a plan. After three months studying abroad at Oxford University, I wanted to go somewhere comfortable. Since Amsterdam legalized prostitution and marijuana, I assumed it would resemble [...]


Are You Being Catfished?

March 13, 2013

  Online dating is an integral part of almost every gay millenial’s life. When you’re 15 years old, alone in a small town, exploring your sexuality, and surrounded by heterosexuals, where can you turn once you’re bored with the Gay [...]


Straight Stuff For Gay Boys

March 12, 2013

  Right now, media offers the gays few entertainment options. Glee and Modern Family explore the-white-men-who-want-to-adopt-Russian-babies gay experience, and with the exception of the essentialist Rainbow Boys, publishers rarely release queer young adult novels. Gay teens turn to Ke$ha instead [...]